It probably shouldn't bother me but it does. For about 10 years of my life I was extremely close with my best friend. We lived a block and a half from each other. We considered each other sisters. I called her mom and dad, mom and dad. They took care of me throughout my teenage years, way better than my own parents did. We went through everything together.
Now we all know that when you are close friends you don't sleep with each others ex's, or even date for that matter. Especially when it was one of the others "big loves".
Now plenty of her ex's had approached me over the years and I never even thought of doing that to her. She was my sister. I could never betray her that way. Even know when we haven't spoken in well over 6 to 7 years, I could still never do that to her.
Tonight I found out that she had no problem doing that to me. I found out that she decided to sleep with my ex when him and I were broken up but yet her and I were still friends. She never told me that. In fact she never, and I mean never had a nice thing to say about this guy.
I feel very betrayed. I know that I wasn't with him and that by all rights both of them had any right to do anything they wanted to do. But what about that rule, that you don't sleep with your friends ex's?
Maybe I shouldn't be, but I am hurt.
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You have a right to your feelings. No should or shouldn't. And why would she tell you about it now, just to hurt you? Something smells fishy to me and I think it is her guilty conscience. If you found out about it through a third party, confront her yourself and get the facts.
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