Sunday, April 3, 2011

#9 The Transition

I have never had such an odd transition of going from single to a relationship. I don't know if it is because I was single for so long, or what exactly happened this time. I had more people in my life that I considered friends, that actually got mad at me when I told them that I was in a relationship. Their reasoning.....they thought we had "something" going. One of them I was incredibly clear with, that we absolutely could NOT have a relationship. In fact I had said it over and over again. Another one had never even asked me on a date, so how the hell was I supposed to know? Another one, hadn't talked to me in a month and a half. Yes, we had went on a few dates, but when you don't hear from someone anymore, you figure its over. Right? His excuse, he got shipped to Texas for Army stuff. Well I guess I am supposed to just know that huh? Never felt a spark with him anyways. It's just been odd.
I thought that when your friends were extremely happy and falling in love you were supposed to be happy for them. When I date a guy/girl and we end up just being friends after wards, I am really happy when he/she meets someone. I want him/her to be happy.

I don't know I just think that good friends are hard to come by, and I am not willing to throw people away that easily, so I don't really understand why other people are.

1 comment:

Carol-Sutarooni said...

Wishing you nothing but happiness. Always and all ways.